Thursday, November 29, 2018

Day 2

Made it to the airport for the 2nd time in two days and the flight went off with only a 90 minute delay. I was fortunate to have the seat next to me empty, so it made sleeping possible, along with creative stretching postures for the legs. The flight lasted 15 hours and 30 minutes, and we touched down in Taipei. Found out that instead of flying direct to Chiang Mai, I had to first fly to Bangkok, which was going to be a 3 hour and 30 minute flight. When I am forced to sit for more than 6 hours without much of a break my stomach starts to feel tight and uncomfortable, so I was relieved to have made the first long segment of the flight without much discomfort. However, when the Bangkok flight started my stomach got tight and I dreaded the next 3 hours. I decided to focus my mind on prayer instead of pain, and so began a mantra of 2 prayers, and miraculously within 15 minutes my stomach pain disappeared and did not return. On the Bangkok flight I noticed a number of people seated next to me from the Chicago/Taiwan flight, mostly younger people who looked to be on travel adventures.

Upon arrival in Bangkok I had flashbacks to my 2012 visit where I landed at 1:00am and could not figure out how to properly fill in the arrival/departure card needed for immigration, but this time I looked the card over carefully and breezed through immigration. One bit of luck about having to transfer to the Chiang Mai flight is that I got to bypass the long lines at the normal immigration check point and instead got my visa stamped at the empty transfer desk. Once my visa was approved I was told to go to gate A5, and noticed the same faces which had been following me since Chicago. A few of us got to A5 and noticed the area was empty. A bearded hipster who had been continually one step ahead of me since the long lines in Chicago was again just ahead of me and I asked him if he was going to Chiang Mai, and if so, were we in the right place. He seemed a bit frazzled and said we had less than 5 minutes to catch our flight and there was no plane at the gate, so we had to be in the wrong place. He and his girlfriend started to walk back towards immigration, and I followed, realizing that it may still be a long ways to Chiang Mai if we missed the flight. His girlfriend then told us to head back to A5, because there was a change in time zones from Taipei and we had an hour before the plane was to leave, so we headed back to A5 and within 30 minutes the gang from Chicago was hanging around, brushing teeth in a water fountain, reading books, and taking cell phone selfies. I was surprised that these people were not heading into Bangkok, but instead heading north with me to Chiang Mai. When we were seated on the plane I was sitting next to a woman in her 20’s who I had seen in Chicago and I congratulated her for making it through the ordeal we had been through. She (Morgan) laughed and we ended up having a nice conversation to make the 1 hour flight seem shorter.

Arriving in Chiang Mai I watched Morgan move away through the dusty airport corridor, realizing I would not see her again, along with the rest of the Chicago explorers. We were now following our own paths to who knows where. I was supposed to be picked up by my AirBnB hosts but I could not get an open internet connection, and not carrying a phone with me, I decided to try to find transport into town. I walked out into the Chiang Mai morning, the taxi stand crowded, and I was hit with the unique smell which I had forgotten about – a mix of food, sewage, exotic trees, and a hot and smutty smog, which triggered forlorn memories of my misadventures in 2012. I recalled a passage from a novel about Bombay, the author having fallen in love with the city because of the way it smelled, and it seemed to me that the same had happened to me, one of the reasons I loved this Thai place was because of its distinctive odor. As I wandered about aimlessly a tuk tuk appeared next to me, and the driver locked eyes with me and told me what I needed to hear - “tuk tuk ride into town!” So I hopped in and just like the first time, I greeted the Chiang Mai streets from an open door tuk tuk, which made me smile naturally as the morning heat beat down heavily on my weariness.

I was dropped off at Central Mall and I wandered two blocks to the condo building where I was to be staying for the next month. Not having a phone, I had to decide how to signal to the owners, who lived in the building, that I was waiting for them in the lobby. I saw a guard, but talking to him produced nothing significant because he did not understand English, and so I took a seat at a nearby table and tried to calm my thoughts which were tired and overburdened with new stimuli. I thought of chess and I saw that I was in one of those positions which could be called a “critical moment”, and one thing I have learned is that one has to remain focused and under control if one wants to get out of that moment unscathed. I saw an older white fellow amble by and I asked him for help. He told me the front desk receptionist would be able to help and I thanked him and spontaneously thought of offering her 20 baht if she would call the number of my host for me. That idea was a saving one, because a few minutes later I was settling into bed in my new home, dropping into a deep 12 hour sleep, well earned. 

 Learning From Chess, Learning From Life